Sunday, Jan. 02, 2005 - 11:43 p.m.
I'm finally back from my
24 hour getaway. Broke my celibacy yesterday morning which was .. ahhhh .. so relieving :) then drove up to the Sunshine Coast, about 80 kilometres away.
Met my friend S there who had been staying in a unit for the week with her 15 year old son, K. S had prepared this amazing Fiji Indian vegetarian lunch consisting of a whole heap of dishes I can't pronounce but there was flat bread, dahl, potato curry, yoghurt dish, cucumber dish, tomato and chilli dish, rice etc. It was SO delicious! All the flavours combining and eaten with the fingers. S works with refugees and has years of experience in working with different cultures.
The number and age ratio was similar to my Christmas Day experience (at least three guests over the age of 50) but, unlike Christmas Day, I wasn't treated like a child! These friends of S (and of course S herself) embraced me and engaged me in fascinating conversations about Africa, Buddhism, foreign aid, colonialism, autism. Her son K was not your typical 15yo - he was not sullen or withdrawn - instead, we conversed about computers and options after school. He asked endless questions and gave suggestions about David. The whole day I was made to feel so special, unique and my opinions were valued. All this with an amazing view of the ocean from the balcony.
In the early evening we took a walk along the beach before the visitors headed home.
S and I had planned to visit the Woodford Folk Festival. Around 8pm we left Caloundra and drove, with directions printed from the website, past the Australia Zoo (Crikey!) and through the mountains on a road that could be used for rally car driving. An hour later we finally found the place with only one U-Turn (my fault!). Pulling into the carpark, we found a park and then tried to get a bearing. Three rows forward from the big tree and we took off in the direction of the lights. After a careful trek through the pitch dark tent city and we made it to the path and finally started hearing signs of some form of entertainment.
We arrived at the entrance gate only to be told that we had to buy tickets online! WTF! It was 9.30pm, the whole three day festival was finishing in about 3 hours, and they would not let us in because we hadn't bought tickets online before driving an hour to get there! We were pretty disappointed and no amount of cajoling or ... (we stopped before begging) would convince them. I did consider bribing them with a twenty or so but decided not to. We left disheartened but then decided on Plan B which was to scout the perimeter for an entry point! So here we were, two x 30+ year old women in cardigans (I kid you not) attempting to break into a music festival usually frequented by liberal pot smoking hippies.
We were unsuccessful so trapsed back to the car (remember, three rows forward from the big tree). It was at that point that S's New Years Resolution to give up smoking cracked and we enjoyed one before hopping back in the car and driving an hour back to the unit.
After a comfy sleep, I woke up at 6.30am and went for a swim in the ocean. It was low tide, but still really wonderful to wallow and float and meditate without a ten year old using me as a floating device.
It's amazing how 1 x 24 hour getaway will recharge my spirit for the next three months of the whole single-studying-working-mother-with-a-disabled-child task.
t.