So I had an afternoon siesta about an hour ago. I have a lecture tonight and usually don't get home until late so I try to have a short sleep in the afternoon. I didn't take my nicotine patch off, because it was "only going to be an hour". Just before my alarm went off, I dreamt that I had woken up. I could hear a noise in my lounge room so I got out of bed and went into the lounge room. I saw Wayne doing a handstand, leaning up against the couch. He was always very fit and agile so this is something he could do. I tried to scream but nothing would come out so i grabbed my throat, trying to work out what was wrong with me. He put his feet on the ground, stood up, looked at me and started laughing at me. I shut my eyes really tight, and when I reopened them I was actually awake in my bed.
Today is the six month anniversary since Wayne's death. Will I always remember these significant milestones or is it because it's the first year? Life is much easier and less stressful since he's died. I form friendships with people (male and female) without the risk of getting them involved in the bullshit that he has caused in the past. I no longer check noticeboards at Uni for naked pictures of myself. When I hear a noise outside I no longer reach for the phone. I don't have any more court dates to prepare for or remember or schedule inbetween lectures. My parents are more supportive because they know he can no longer manipulate and cajole and brainwash me into making stupid decisions. I only talk about the positive aspects of him with David, because I no longer feel the need to protect David against his Father. I now know without a doubt that Wayne can never convince David to live with him, as he did with his other two sons. And for that, I thank God.
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